How Do I Prove That My Ex Is Trying To Turn My Child Against Me in Texas?

 Posted on July 23, 2025 in Child Custody

When a parent tries to damage the relationship between a child and the other parent, it can create long-term emotional harm. This behavior, called parental alienation, can also impact the outcome of a custody case. 

In Texas, courts focus on the child’s best interests, which includes preserving a healthy bond with both parents when possible. If you suspect your ex is turning your child against you, you need to understand your legal rights and how to prove it. The first step is to speak with an experienced Austin, TX child custody attorney to learn more.

What Is Parental Alienation Under Texas Law?

Texas law does not specifically address "parental alienation." However, the concept is recognized through actions that interfere with a parent’s access to their child or damage the parent-child relationship. Under Texas Family Code § 153.001, the court’s primary goal in custody matters is to support the relationship between a child and a parent who has shown that they place the child’s best interests first.

When a parent undermines this by manipulating the child or blocking communication, it may be viewed as a violation of court orders or an attempt to interfere with the child’s emotional welfare. In extreme cases, this conduct may support a request to modify custody under Texas Family Code § 156.101. To modify custody, you must prove that a substantial change in circumstances has occurred and that modifying custody would be best for your child. 

Signs of Parental Alienation

Parental alienation can take many forms, and it often builds over time. If your child is suddenly withdrawn or unusually hostile toward you without reason, it could be a sign of outside influence. Other common red flags include:

• Your child uses phrases or arguments that sound like something your ex would say

• Your ex tells your child details about the divorce or custody battle

• Your ex cancels visits or makes false claims to prevent you from seeing your child

• Your child refuses contact without explanation

• Your ex encourages your child to keep secrets from you

• Your ex repeatedly criticizes you in front of the child

These behaviors can create confusion, fear, and anger in your child, leading them to reject you unjustly.

How Do You Prove Parental Alienation in Texas Court?

To prove parental alienation, you will need to collect evidence that shows a pattern of harmful behavior. Courts do not act on suspicion alone. They require strong evidence. For example, text messages or emails that show your ex speaking negatively about you; witness testimony from teachers; counselors, or relatives who have seen the alienating behavior; recordings or written statements that document negative comments made by your ex to your child; evidence of denied visitation, such as police reports or missed exchanges; and mental health evaluations that support claims of emotional harm to your child can all be used as proof.

The court may also appoint a guardian ad litem or child representative to assess the situation. Both are appointed by the court to represent your child’s best interests and provide recommendations.

Contact an Austin, TX Complex Child Custody Attorney Today

Parental alienation cases can be complex and emotionally charged. If you suspect your ex is turning your child against you, contact a Travis County, TX child custody lawyer at Powers Kerr & Rashidi, PLLC today. Call us at 512-610-6199 to schedule a consultation, and we can discuss the legal options available to protect your relationship with your child.